Black and White

life is not as easy as we flip our hand, black become white.. need more struggle to keep stay and feel this legit world. as we know that this world will not fulfill all our fancy. we should have a strong reason to survive. and once more, to know what is our reason to survive is not that kind of easy. our surrounding has an important role to reach our success, so don't ignore the surrounding guys. life is too shot to regret, maximize all chances we have and get the maximum result of our effort. do not let the failure haunted us. one of my friend ever told me 'Rome was not build in a day, everything needs process'.
everybody in this world has their own goals, but not all person have the same goals. some of them may want to make their parent proud, or earn money as much as possible to get everything they want and many others. it's normal, the thing which could be different is how the way they reach their goal. maybe some of them will work very hard to reach it, or maybe some others just do nothing because they just want to have a dream, not to make it come true. it's all up to them.
in my opinion someone who has struggled to reach his/her goals is someone who can be called as the WINNER. why? because they had try and  prove if they could be better than others. they had felt how 'black' and how 'white' this world. they know how to face it and how to keep stay on their track.

"Pemenang Adalah Yang Mampu Bangkit Dari Kegagalan, Lalu Bergerak Dan Bertindak Menciptakan Kejayaan Dan Kemenangan. Bila Takut Gagal, Takut Jatuh,Takut Mengambil Risiko; Maka Dia Bukanlah Seorang Pemenang, Walaupun Dia Terlihat Seperti Sedang Menang."~ Djajendra 

Outstanding Wife

I found a blog about ISLAM, and it contains a wonderful word about how to be an outstanding wife. who wants to be an outstanding wife? I do want it guys, how about you? if yes, try to read it and do it when you have a fabulous  husband later :)

Love him


Love him …when he “forgets” that special occasion. For him every moment with you is special so he does not need an occasion.

Love him…when he comes late from the Musjid. He wants to make sure he is early with you in Jannah (Paradise).

Love him…when he admonishes you to don the hijaab. He wants to be sure you enshrouded by Allah’s Mercy when you leave the home.

Love him…when he is jealous. Out of… all the women he could have, he chose you to be his wife!

Love him…when he is working till late. At least he comes home and you still get to sleep and wake up in his loving and caring arms.

Love him…when he has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too (and maybe more)

Love him…when does not praise your cooking. He told you as newlyweds that yours was indeed always the best.

Love him…when he looks dishevelled. He was more busy caring for the family than grooming himself. By the way he is cute!

Love him…when he does not help in the home. He is out earning a halaal (pure) income for the family.

Love him…when he does not reply to your questions. He does not want to hurt your feelings or is absorbed in thinking about your welfare.

Love him…when he looks beautiful. He’s yours to appreciate!

Love him…when he goes out in the Path of Allah. He is preparing a blissful eternal home for you in Jannah.

Love him…when he does not comment when you get angry. He is a good listener.

Love him…when he buys you gifts you don’t like. Smile and tell him it’s what you’ve always wanted. He took the time and money out just for you!

Love him…when he has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help him change.

Love him…when he is irritable and moody. Buy chocolates, massage his head and feet and just chat to him. He will become your slave!

Love him…when whatever you do is not pleasing. It’s like a storm; it happens and will soon pass by.

Love him…when he drives so fast. He only wants you to be there in time.

Love him…when he extends his period of rest. He is re-charging himself to serve you the best.

Love him…when he forgets to say “I love you”. He actually shows his love in many other ways.

Love him…when he forgets to buy the bread or milk. He was rushing home to be with you.

Love him…when he does not give you a chance to talk. He just knows what is in your heart and what it is you want to say.

Love him…when he “demands” respect. After all he is the head of the house.
Love him…when he shouts the kids. He only wants to ensure they are corrected and have a good moral upbringing.

Love him…he is yours. You don’t need any other special reason!!!!
All this forms part of a man’s character. Your Husband is part of your life and should be treated as the King!.

Just Dream

 

Dream

EEP and Resolution

Let me tell you something guys, my beloved school has an English program called EEP. EEP is exist to improve the ability for student when they face the TOEFL test. we will learn about structure, writing, reading and listening. for me, EEP is ineffective because I dont like it -__- it was very boring for me (but sometime it's not :p ) especially is held on Friday in the last time of school hours -__- oh God, it was killing me inside. in every meeting, we will do different activities and today's activity in EEP is to make the resolution in 2013. and now, I will tell you what I have written as my resolution.

2012 has passed, 2013 is coming and bring lots of hope for me. education is the important thing for me to be reached in this year. get the highest score in national examination *amin and enter the university which I want to go *amin. I will face the new cycle of my life, I wish I can handle it with the 'new' of me *amin. I wish I can stay health, and keep close with my family *amin. besides, I want to get a boyfriend in this year *hahahaha amin, so I will not stay single anymore in this year. I hope I can earn lots of money for myself so, I could buy anything I want. Have an elate abandon :D
then I hope I can ride motorcycle so I can go anywhere I want :p

Education, Love, Money, Family, Health, Friends in 2013

Photooo

My life is kinda a boring as usual, it means is not the right time for me to stay at room and had nothing to do.. Tami (my roommate) and I

 decided to take some picture at the garden near the lighthouse. Tami borrowed the camera from pipod, thanks pipod :D we went down to the garden at 4 and finished our photo session at 5 or 6 :D
here we are :) 

look down

looking forward to get what I want :)

Girls' Secret

Girls’ secret (Damn It’s True!)

When you break her heart – the pain NEVER really goes away

 When she misses you – she’s hurting inside

 When she says it’s over – she STILL wants you to be hers

 When she reposts this bulletin – she wants you to read it

 When she walks away from you mad – Follow her

When she pushes you or hits you – Grab her and don’t let go

When she starts cursing at you – Kiss her and tell her you love her

When she ignores you – Give her your attention

When she pulls away – Pull her back

When you see her at her worst – Tell her she’s beautiful

When you see her starts crying – Just hold her and don’t say a word

When you see her walking – Sneak up and hug her waist from behind

When she’s scared – Protect her

When she steals your favorite hat – Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night

When she teases you – Tease her back and her laugh

When she doesn’t answer for a long time – Reasure her that everything is okay

When she looks at you with doubt – Back yourself up with the TRUTH

When she says that she likes you – She really does more than you could understand

When she grabs your hands – Hold her and play with her fingers

When she bumps into you – Bump into her back and make her laugh

When she tells you a secret – Keep it safe and untold

When she looks at you in your eyes – Don’t look away until she does

- Stay on the phone with her even she’s not saying anything

- DON’T let her have the last word

- DON’T call her hot, But Gorgeous or beautiful is sooo much better

- Say you love her more than she could ever love you

- Argue that she is the best girl ever

- When she’s mad hug her tight and don’t let go

- When she says she’s ok don’t believe it, talk with her

- Because 10 years later she’ll remember you

- Call her at 12.00 am on her birthday to tell her you love her

- Call her before you sleep and after you wake up

- Treat her like she’s all that matters to you

- Tease her and let her tease you back

- Stay up all night with her when she’s sick

- Watch her favourite movie with her or her favourite show even if you think it’s stupid

- Give her the world

- Let her wear your clothes

- When she’s bored and sad, hang out with her

- Let her know she’s important

- When she runs up at you crying the first thing you say is : “Who’s ass am I kicking today baby?”

Me, Doodle, and Ofi

Ofi has a new hobby right now, making a doodle.. she made a doodle for someone's birthday.. and the result is so awesome :D
when I saw that picture, directly I said to her 'give me one' and she agreed :) (love you darl :*)

and this is the result :)

another doodle

before we went to the GO course, we took some picture of it.. (just want you to know, Ofi has no took a bath.. haha :D)

 

  and that's the story about me, doodle, and Ofi :)